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Single and Hate Valentine’s Day? by Hannah Bland

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Single and hate Valentine’s day? Have you had a friend tell you how much they dislike Valentine’s Day because they are ‘alone?’

We often get the idea that Valentine’s Day is only about writing love letters to, or buying chocolate and flowers for, our significant others.

If we stick this narrow idea of Valentine’s Day we’ll miss an opportunity to show the love we have for our parents, siblings, grandparents, and friends. All important people within our lives. There are many other ways to enjoy and show love on Valentine’s Day.

In Ruth 1:16 we read one of the greatest stories of love. Naomi upon deciding to return home asked both Orpah and Ruth to remain in their own country. Orpah listened to Naomi’s plea and returned home, where she could get married, and have children.

Ruth, however, had a plea of her own ” where you go I will go, where you stay I will stay….” She loved Naomi so much that she was willing to give up all that Orpah could have, in order to live with Naomi the rest of her life.

As we look at Ruth we see that love isn’t all about getting married, being swept off our feet, or even dreaming and hoping about what our future can hold. Love is right in front of us. It’s in the people we surround ourselves with, those who really care about us. We see the greatest act of love in the Bible, Jesus offering His life for us as an act of love.

When you celebrate Valentine’s Day today, could I challenge you to shift your focus from the ‘love’ you don’t have while celebrating and expressing love to those who are right with you. The family and friends you do have who love you, and of course to God who loves you more than anyone on earth ever could.

From me to you Happy Valentine’s Day!

With Love extended
Hannah Bland

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It’s More than a One Night Stand by Gregory Bland

love-respect-gregory-blandValentine’s Day is traditionally an evening of flowers, candy, romantic dinners, carefully chosen words, and concentrated time together. Maybe for some, a secret hope of rekindling a flame that has grown dim, others may desire to kindle a new spark with someone special, or for others, sadly, it’s simply an opportunity to get ‘lucky’. Whatever your motive for celebrating Valentine’s Day, one thing is certain, it is universally understood as a time to show your love for someone special.

As a Dad of two daughters’ and one son there is a strong desire to see relationship and love rise to higher standards than we often see around us. I am not naïve either; I recognize that our children learn more by example than any amount of words I use. For that reason I focus more upon developing my own character which flows out in my words and actions. Our lives, Lynn and mine, are living examples for our three children. They watch, observe, and learn.

Certainly, Valentine’s can and is an opportunity for something different, something special, but it does not replace the ‘every day’ relationship we share. Reflecting on our Valentine’s celebration this year leaves one overarching value lingering in my mind.

Showing love, respect, and value for a lady is a daily commitment we need to make as men.

There are 365 days in the year giving us incredible opportunities and time to show our love, respect, and value for the lady’s in our lives. Make the most of every day!

Until next time,
Make the most of every day to show love, respect, and value for the lady in your life.

Your friend and pro-active parent coach
Gregory Bland
Pro-Active Parent Coaching and
The Legacy Centre